WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT?
From the earliest of time till date, Men and women have always been at an emotional stalemate. This is made worse by the unending mutual suspicion between the Sexes.
Generally, here are the MOST IMPORTANT things that all women want in a relationship.
1. TO FEEL LOVED:
One of Life’s best feelings for any Woman is to be loved fruitfully and unconditionally.
When women feel loved, they relax and open to their Men. The arguments dissipate, the sex is abundant, and their nurturing feminine energy flows throughout our lives.
Learn to see through her words, actions, and moods and see what the real root of it is.
2. TO BE APPRECIATED:
Guys, the feminine in all Women responds primarily to praise and appreciation.
Telling her you Love her isn’t enough. Its better to do things that remind your partner that you love her. Tell her that you appreciate what she brings to your life. Show her how much she means to you.
So tell her what you appreciate, and tell her often.
3. TO BE HEARD AND FEEL SEEN
Women want to feel seen.
She wants a listening ear always.
She wants to feel you listening to her, and being aware of her emotional state.
She doesn’t necessarily want you to be affected by her emotional state, but she does want you to be witness to it.
If she is sitting across the room from you and you aren’t picking up on the fact that she is suffering emotionally and on the verge of tears, she will begin to trust you less.
4. TO FEEL SAFE:
Women believe that there is always a war being waged on their self-esteem, sexuality, and safety from a very young age. They may not be wrong after all given the way our Societies are.
Because of the barrage of dis empowering messages being sent to women regarding their sexuality, women need to have a safe space where they feel that they can trust their partners.
She wants to trust your strength. She wants to feel like you can handle whatever she shows you.
She wants to feel like you will not judge her if she asks for something risqué. She wants to know you won’t collapse in defeat if she tells you to do it “This way” instead.
By creating a safe space for your woman to open up to you emotionally and sexually, you will be giving her a very powerful gift- you allow her to grow within your relationship and undo old emotional damage.
5. TO BE ALLOWED TO BE NURTURING:
Same way masculine energy has the need to protect, feminine energy has the desire to nurture.
Women want to see the cracks in her Man’s armour. They want to see that their Men trust them enough to open up to them. They want to be able to help their guys through their sadness.
An integrated, evolved man who has a balanced masculine energy as well as his own sliver of feminine would welcome his woman’s nurturing.
6. TO FEEL LIKE SHE CAN COUNT ON YOU:
Life gets pretty messy and throws curve balls at us sometimes.
When life’s unavoidable difficulties arise, do you fall apart under pressure or are you able to bend and not break?
Women want to know that their Men can handle themselves when life happens. They want to know that their Man won’t run and hide when they get a bit ‘too emotional’. They want to know that they can count on you.
7. TO FEEL SEXUALLY DESIRED:
The major difference between your relationship to your partner and your relationship to everyone else in your life is sex.
Women need to feel sexually desired. They want to make sure that you see and appreciate them as a feminine, sexual being.
Praise her body. Feel her and grab her appreciatively. Remind her that you see her as a sexual being and you will both benefit.
Remember, every Woman prefer a Man who makes Love to them to the one that simply have Sex with them. Making Love is healthy and beautiful; having Sex sucks!
#HAPPINESS #
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